As our understanding of the mind deepens, the power of language becomes increasingly evident. Words shape our thoughts and actions, influencing our personal growth and collective consciousness. While the term “unconditional love” has long been used to describe a profound form of affection, it carries inherent limitations. By shifting our focus to “universal love,” we acknowledge the interconnectedness of all beings and embrace a more inclusive and expansive definition of love.
This article will:
- Deconstruct the limitations of “unconditional love.”
- Define “universal love,” a boundless form of love that extends to all beings, regardless of circumstances or personal connections.
- Highlight the empowering nature of universal love, which fosters self-worth and encourages compassion for all.
- Offer practical tips for integrating universal love into daily life.
Unconditional Love is Conditional By Definition
Unconditional love is limiting and restrictive term. This phrase was derived from a lower-vibrational understanding of love and perpetuates 3D templates and matrixed beliefs. The use of the word “conditional”- implies that the love is subject to conditions — or the lack thereof these conditions — which makes the love subjective in nature. By definition, unconditional love should be objective; independent of your opinion of what conditions do or do not apply, and free of circumstantial or situational factors affecting it in any way.
True love is void of conditions; it surpasses personal beliefs and views. It is sourced from a higher power, such as God and the spiritual dimension of one’s soul — their true consciousness and who they are in their heart. To surpass your personal beliefs and views, you must take into account how your beliefs and views are applied to create your understanding of love. Your understanding must be stripped of said beliefs and views. Do this by not triggering your mind with the phrase, “unconditional“, so that it does not apply associations and related beliefs that influence your understanding of love.
Using “conditional” in the word unconditional automatically activates the cognitive associations you’ve developed for related things like a condition, dependency, influencing factor, controlling factor, and relativity. The situations you’ve experienced throughout your lifetime have painted each of these related things with perceptions and beliefs, which influence your overall understanding of “unconditional love” — the term they’re tied to — means. Since your experiences vary from anyone else’s, your understanding is unique and, well, conditional. This includes your understanding of what it means to love someone unconditionally, how it differs from “conditional” love, your perception of if being worth said love, and everything else that the phrase encompasses.
Conditional: Subject to one or more requirements being met;
to be made or granted on certain terms.
Unconditional: Not subject to any conditions.
Your view of “unconditional love” is subject to your unique experiences and beliefs, which makes it conditional by definition.
The love you flow into the world should be as boundless, infinite, and free as the love we hear described in God and the divine. Thereby, “unconditional love” is not sufficient for supporting a more evolved, higher consciousness.
But this isn’t just about mere definition of words. It’s about the level and quality of love you’re able to perceive, understand, receive, and express. It changes the very nature of the love you’re experiencing.
Universal Love: A More Inclusive and Expansive Expression of Love
What is Universal Love?
Universal love is not about denying the unique bonds we share with those closest to us. Instead, it’s about expanding our capacity for love to include all beings, regardless of their background, beliefs, or actions. It’s about recognizing that we are all part of a vast and interconnected web of life, and that each individual deserves to be treated with compassion and respect.
Universal love encompasses the full meaning of this type of great love, without the limiting language-implications and associations of “unconditional.” It transcends personal attachments, self-centric beliefs of the ego, and extends to all beings and circumstance. Discover the empowering principles of universal love and how to incorporate them into your daily interactions, fostering a more compassionate and interconnected world.
Unconditional Love vs. Universal Love: What’s the Difference?
One of the best examples we have of unconditional love is a parent’s love for their child, but even a parent’s love for a child is subject to conditions, such as when we question if a parent will love their child as much for coming out with a different sexuality or if the child if was convicted of something heinous like murder. In other words, love is conditional pending certain actions, beliefs, and situations that occur here on earth, in this physical body and temporary lifetime. It is restricted by the circumstances of this world.
In contrast, universal love encompasses all beings without limitation or discrimination. It transcends personal attachments and extends to all of humanity, recognizing the inherent worth and interconnectedness of every individual.
The Problematic Issues with “Unconditional Love”
The concept of “unconditional love” is often romanticized as an ideal form of affection, one that is unwavering and boundless. This idealized notion can lead to misconceptions and challenges in understanding and practicing true universal love.
A common misconception surrounding unconditional love is that it entails accepting all actions and behaviors without question or consequence. This interpretation can be problematic, as it implies that individuals should tolerate harmful or abusive behavior in the name of love. This perspective suggests that unconditionally loving individuals should simply accept whatever happens without taking action or expressing their needs.
True love, however, does not mean abandoning one’s own well-being or failing to assert oneself. It’s about balancing love and self-respect, understanding that healthy relationships require open communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to address concerns.
Unconditional love can sometimes be misinterpreted as endorsing unhealthy attachments or codependent relationships. This misconception arises from the belief that unconditional love means giving up one’s own needs and desires to please another person.
True love fosters healthy interdependence, where individuals support and care for each other while maintaining their own autonomy and sense of self. It’s about recognizing that love thrives in a space where individuals feel valued and respected as individuals.
Exploring these misconceptions is crucial for understanding the true essence of unconditional love. It’s not about blind acceptance or passive surrender; it’s about embracing love with boundaries, self-respect, and a commitment to healthy relationships.
Universal love doesn’t mean abandoning personal attachments or neglecting the relationships we cherish. It’s about expanding our circle of compassion to encompass all of humanity. With true universal love, you overcome selfish notions of envy and territorialism, and realize that really loving someone means wanting them to feel the infinite greatest love possible.
Universal love can strengthen our personal relationships by fostering a sense of empathy and understanding. When we see others through the lens of universal love beyond the scope of circumstance and personal bias, we are more likely to connect with them on a deeper level and appreciate their unique perspectives.
Practicing Universal Love for Yourself
The ultimate cheat code for unlocking this powerful, divine love is by turning your attention to within. That’s right, it’s time to fall in love with yourself.
Fall in love with you like you’d fall in love with a romantic partner.
The way to access universal love in your life is to first learn how to unlock it for yourself. Doing so will require these three steps for inner work and healing:
- Practicing Self-Acceptance: Acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses, embracing your individuality without self-judgment. Accept that mistakes are a natural part of life and learn from them without dwelling on them.
- Engaging in Self-Care: Prioritize your physical and emotional well-being. Engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation, and nourish your body with healthy foods and adequate rest.
- Learning Self-Forgiveness: Forgive yourself for past mistakes, understanding that everyone makes mistakes and that forgiveness allows you to move forward.
I personally experienced this transformative power after a period of profound healing and growth following the loss of my twin flame. Today, I feel the boundless flow of universal love permeating every aspect of my life, regardless of external circumstances, which is saying a lot considering the increasingly chaotic world around us. Yet, amidst the chaos, for every dumpster fire ,you see blazing or crazy story you hear, there are countless individuals working to create a more harmonious and evolved future.
It’s only after you learn to love yourself that you can know universal love.
Practicing Universal Love for Other People
Start by extending compassion and understanding to those around you, regardless of their background or beliefs. Practice active listening, offer forgiveness, and celebrate the diversity of human perspectives.
- Cultivate Active Listening: Engage in genuine conversations, giving others your undivided attention and seeking to understand their perspectives. Listen without judgment, allowing them to express their thoughts and feelings without fear of criticism.
- Practice Empathy: Step into the shoes of others, trying to understand their experiences and emotions. Acknowledge their struggles and offer support without imposing your own opinions or advice.
- Extend Kindness and Compassion: Offer a helping hand to those in need, whether it’s holding the door for someone, offering a listening ear, or providing a small act of kindness.
- Practice Forgiveness: Let go of resentments and grudges, understanding that forgiveness is not about condoning wrongdoing but about freeing yourself from the burden of negativity.
- Extend Understanding to Diverse Perspectives: Embrace the diversity of human experiences and viewpoints. Engage in open-minded conversations, seeking to understand different perspectives without necessarily agreeing with them.
I invite you to reflect on your own experiences with love and consider how you can incorporate the principles of universal love into your daily life. Incorporating universal love into your daily interactions is a continuous journey of self-discovery, compassion, and connection. By cultivating self-compassion, extending kindness to others, and challenging negative biases, we can create a more harmonious and loving world, one interaction at a time.
A More Evolved, Higher Love to Advance Humanity
To elevate our consciousness and create a better world, we must refine our language. By replacing outdated terms with more inclusive ones, we can bridge misunderstandings and foster a deeper connection with others. Let’s contribute to this linguistic evolution by embracing the power of words.
| Concept | 3D Term | 5D Term |
| Love | Unconditional Love | Universal Love |
The term “universal love” offers a more comprehensive and empowering definition of love. It transcends the limitations of “unconditional love” by acknowledging the interconnectedness of all beings. As our understanding of language and the mind grows, we recognize the importance of using precise terminology. By adopting “universal love,” we can elevate our collective consciousness and foster a world of harmony and compassion.
Conclusion
In summary, the term “unconditional love” is inherently limiting. Rooted in lower-vibrational understanding, it reinforces outdated beliefs and constraints. The very notion of “unconditional” implies a dependence on specific conditions, making it subjective rather than objective. True love is sourced from a higher power, transcending personal beliefs and views.
To truly experience this love, we must detach from our conditioned understanding, which is influenced by personal experiences and societal norms and upgrade from the term “unconditional” and call this powerful type of love what it really is: Universal love.
Universal love is not merely a passive sentiment; it is an active force that has the power to transform our relationships, communities, and the world at large. You have a unique opportunity to guide humanity toward a higher understanding of love. The best place to start is to shed the restrictive definition of “unconditional love” and embrace the expansive concept of “universal love” in your life.
