Losing your Twin Flame is a powerful blow. The person whose soul energy tethered yours in the material world has now returned back to Spirit, but what do you do when you can still feel their energy? You know your story together isn’t over. You might even be experiencing signs and synchronicities. And it’s time for answers. A psychic medium can be very helpful in your healing journey, whether to get answers or just the added assurance necessary to bring you peace of mind.
Whether you’re a skeptic of metaphysical communication or not, the one thing a medium can give you is assurance. They can verify and confirm the things your intuition is telling you. For me, this assurance and the comfort it brought in the grief journey of my late twin flame was worth every penny. If you’re looking for confirmation that it’s OK to see a psychic reader or medium, this is it!
But making the decision to open up to this new modality has its challenges. If you’re like me, you’ve never gave psychic/mediumship the time of day before and may be wondering things like: Can you trust what they have to say? How do you even find the right practitioner if you’re not quite sure what it is you’re looking for? This article has the information to soothe common doubts or fears about hiring a psychic/medium and help you make your decision.
Is it a Good Idea to See a Medium after your Twin Flame Dies?
Yes. A qualified medium can help you make sense of the things you’re feeling and experiencing. A medium is not required for this, but often when you’re beginning the spiritual journey, a session with a medium can give you added assurance and direction for what you’re experiencing.
Especially when dealing with a twin flame relationship, which is characterized by a deep, metaphysical bond at the soul level, working with someone who is well versed in energy practices and spiritual modalities can help provide clarity and interpret the metaphysical signals that are manifesting in your life.
Finding a Qualified Medium
Step 1: Set a Goal
First, you’ll need to decide what you hope to get out of the session. What is it that you want to accomplish?
For instance, do you just want general guidance to get some sense of direction? Are you looking for information about past lives to figure out why you feel such a strong tie to your late loved one? Would you simply like to know that their soul is peacefully at rest? Or are you ready to dive into the world of metaphysics and learn more about how your relationship will work now that they’re in spiritual form?
There are mediums who focus on specific things like past life regression therapy, psychic readings, and accessing the Akashic Records (also called the Book of Life). Some practitioners specialize in Twin Flame connections. Defining your goal will help narrow the search for the right practitioner.
Step 2: Search for the Right Practitioner
Here are some steps to find a qualified medium:
- Do your research. There are many mediums out there, so it’s important to do your research and find one that is reputable and has a good reputation. You can read online reviews, talk to friends or family who have seen a medium, or check with your local metaphysical shop.
Look for a medium who is certified by a reputable organization, such as the American Federation of Certified Psychics and Mediums. Check the practitioner’s credentials in areas like Reiki Healing or the Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique (QHHT).
- Ask questions. Once you’ve found a few mediums that you’re interested in, be sure to ask them questions about their experience, their methods, and their fees. It’s important to feel comfortable with the medium and to be confident that they are someone you can trust.
A good medium will answer your questions before the session, because just as you are feeling them out to see if they’re a good fit for you, they’re also vetting things on their end to ensure they can adequately help you. For added assurance, ask for references from previous clients.
- Get a feel for their energy. When you meet with a medium, pay attention to their energy. Do they feel genuine and compassionate? Do you feel comfortable around them? It’s important to choose a medium who you feel a connection with.
- Trust your gut. Ultimately, the best way to find a qualified medium is to trust your gut. If you feel like a medium is right for you, then go with your gut feeling.
Your intuition will never lead you astray. If you feel like a medium is not right for you, then don’t feel obligated to book a reading.
Unfortunately, psychic/mediumship is an area prone to scammers and opportunists, so it’s important to find someone who is qualified and has intentions that match your needs. A qualified psychic/medium will NOT slide into your DMs. They will wait for you to come to them. Avoid anyone whose messaging includes things like, “your ancestors have a message for you,” “I’m drawn to you,” or “Your energy is telling me you need a reading.”
To make it easier, think about it like shopping for a car. Some car lots aren’t as reputable and are in it for the almighty dollar. They’re insensitive to your situation and will say anything to get the sale. Then, you have the fancy car dealerships that have a credible reputation and rave reviews, but can be pricey. At the end of the day, remember, your metaphysical health and wellbeing is worth taking the extra pay period to save for a qualified medium. Don’t be fooled and get a lemon!
Alternatives to a Medium Session: Honing Your Skills
While a session with a metaphysical professional can be helpful in providing assurance, not everyone needs the guidance of a medium. If you feel that you want to see a medium but it’s not in your budget, not being able to afford it might be the universe’s way of encouraging you to look inwards.
That said, there are alternatives if you can’t afford a medium or feel like it’s not for you. In fact, you are capable of uncovering the answers you wish to find. Yes, you! The things you seek from a medium can be found through your independent exploration. After all, much of the journey is learning how to trust what you’re receiving. You have energetic gifts just as a psychic/medium does. All it takes is a little sharpening of your energetic skills and honing in on your intuitive talents!
You can go to work straight away to:
- Sharpen your communication skills
- Balance your chakras
- Explore dream work or astral projection
- Meet your spirit guides (Learn how to communicate with your guides)
- Do energy healing with your Twin Flame’s higher self
- Clear the mirror
- Alchemize past trauma
- Discover past lives
- Interpret the signs your loved one is sending you
Embracing Your Energetic Gifts (You’re Psychic, Too!)
If you’re receiving signs and messages after your Twin Flame’s passing, then guess what? You’re a medium! Yes, you are exercising your psychic abilities in order to pick up on these things.
After your loved one has passed, their transition back into spirit causes a massive energy shift. Since you are always energetically connected to them, it creates an energetic window. It thins the veil, so to speak.
You don’t need to wait for your appointment with a medium to begin deciphering the universe’s metaphysical language and see what your guides are trying to tell you.
A True Story of Using a Psychic/Medium Along the Twin Flame Journey
I had never considered seeing a psychic or medium before my Twin Flame died. He died on January 22, 2021. By early February, I’d scheduled my session with a psychic reader at my local metaphysical store. I went into it skeptical of what I’d get out of it.
The Psychic Reading Session
The $60 thirty-minute session included the channeling of my late loved one’s energy–which I’d been experiencing on my own since he passed and was desperately seeking confirmation that it wasn’t all in my head. The session also included a brief Tarot reading to provide some sort of direction in my daily life. To my surprise, the reader got all the details of my loved one exactly right! I was blown away, as I hadn’t revealed any information to her and there’s no way she could’ve researched me to find it beforehand.
The psychic reading also acted as confirmation of the signs and signals I was receiving in that period of my life. For instance, though I booked the session two to three weeks out, the only availability they had was on Valentine’s Day. Here’s why this is important:
My late Twin Flame had regularly wrote me letters before he died. A year after the reading, I went back through them. Out of the hundreds of writings, three of them were misdated. The date he put? Valentine’s Day of 2021. These three letters were post-dated for a year after he died, which coincidentally was the date of my psychic reading. It was a signal of assurance that these events were divinely timed and connected.
The reading also gave me information about a past life I had with my Twin Flame. Proof that our journey was entangled across time. The circumstances of the past life that the reader shared gave me insight into why he and I acted the way we did in this lifetime. My soul recognized the story she shared as truth.
The Past Life Regression Session
After the psychic session, I continued to notice that spirit was actively trying to connect with me. There was information attempting to be conveyed, but I wasn’t quite picking up on it to fully understand the message. So, I began the practice of meditating every day to better receive the message. This opened up a whole new world of love, comfort, and answers. But I struggled to be confident and doubt-free about what I was receiving and sought the help of a certified past life regressionist.
I found Irina Nola of New Orleans Hypnosis on the Quora message boards about coping with the loss of a Twin Flame. Though I lived in a different state, I was able to book a virtual session with her via Zoom. The price was steep. It was $350 for a 1-1.5 hour Twin Flame Regression Session, which included a recording of it for my records (Update: the price has dropped since then). After having had sufficient time for things to integrate and come together, I believe the session was worth every penny!
I talk about the experience of the regression and what it revealed in the article, Death of a Twin Flame and Continuing the Journey, and provide even more detail in my book, REBIRTH: The Spiritual Evolution that Reunited Two Souls.
Finding a Medium to Facilitate Your Connection With Your Twin Flame
If you feel guided to see a medium, it doesn’t hurt to try it out. A good medium will encourage your personal development, so that you can use the signs and modalities that spirit sends to guide you. They might direct you to resources and helpful information like the works of Dolores Cannon or they might introduce you to your spirit guides.
The profession of mediumship is often mimicked by scammers and there are low quality readers out there who won’t hesitate to take your money. The practitioner should be open to talk with you before scheduling to ensure that you’re a good fit for one another and verify that you’re able to do the reading (e.g., not in a state of grief that would limit the high-vibrational connection needed). Grief is a low vibrational state, and mediumship requires a clear connection to higher vibrations.
Have patience and trust that everything gets revealed in divine timing. Take the time to do your research and find the right medium for you. As my favorite Tarot reader, Baba Jolie says, “What’s meant for you will never pass you by.”
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Artwork in article graphics by Muhammed Salah
